Lately I’ve been filling in the blank. Like a blank thought. A thought that has evolved into a feeling. You know, those thoughts that linger for a while until you have an “ah ha” moment answer? Yes, those thoughts.
So here I am. Taking another twist on What I ate Wednesday (WIAW) and making it more than food, although equally important.
What I (Fill in the Blank) Wednesday.
What I Hope.
Hope? It’s pretty simple. I hope to make the most of each day. I hope to make my husband feel loved. I hope to appreciate this life God blessed me with. I hope to focus on the now, instead of the future. I hope to make at least one person smile or laugh each day. And yes, I can make myself laugh!
What I crave.
I crave simplicity. I crave real food. I crave a good workout or a run. I crave a nice glass of wine. I crave change, spur of the moment travel, and I crave (at times) solitude.
What I see.
I see a society of extremes. Hyper focused on what we “should do” instead of we are called to do (love, live, be thankful, repeat). I see a Holiday season focused on a to do list rather than a give list. Giving more time to family, to sharing, to feeding, to well….. just being GIVING.
What I need.
I don’t need much. I need fresh air. I need a hug and kiss from my husband. A few moments before the day begins to pray and read my devotional. A warm bed to sleep in and meal to keep me nourished. Wait, that’s more than what most people have already. So yes, my needs are met. Amen!
What I think.
I think laughter cures a bad day. I think the “tips” in most magazines are either repetitive or make you think too much. I think calories don’t count if you are in good company (focusing more on the people than the food). I think my dog was human in another life. I think peanut butter goes on everything (yes, I’ve put it on tortilla chips before with a dash of cinnamon). I think my niece has the best cereal eating technique (see below). I think we over-think in life, and in general. Especially during the Holidays! Maybe we just need to think less and enJOY more. Yes?!
Okay, your turn. What do you…… fill in the ___________?
Hi, y’all, I’m Lindsay Cotter, a Nutrition Specialist with a focus on Gluten-Free eating. I love creating delicious nourishing food that anyone can enjoy.
I think YOU inspire me daily to take a step back and a deep breath. I need more simplicity and just need to take the steps to get there. Hugs lady!!!!!!! I want the Cotter mentality.
What do I crave?! Hmmmm this is EASY…Healthy Bites 🙂 Off to eat one now!
Oh & I crave LOTS of time with my little family. I try to hold on to every moment we have together. Even when parenting is trying…which it can be, I just look at her & realize HOW blessed we are to have her. She’s my little miracle baby.
Love ya Lindsay! 🙂
PS: Added a Healthy Bites link to my blog- I’m planning to start blogging more now, so hopefully I can send some people over! The world needs more healthy bites! XO
You are simply awesome! I love reading your posts and they always get me thinking. This year as a family we are focusing on what we have, not what we want or need. I’m doing my part to enJOY this entire season. Having fun and not counting anything but my blessings.
I really enjoyed that post, it was a great way to start my morning along with a mug of coffee!
I was just wondering what devotional it is that you took the snapshot of, from that little tidbit I think it’s one that I would really enjoy reading!
Thanks
This post is perfect in so many ways. I want to dedicate more time to giving back to all the wonderful people in my life. Also, I definitely have to agree about your niece’s cereal eating technique, she is on to something. 🙂
oooh, I love this idea. I may have to use it;) You are always so inspiring my friend! Yep, I have to stop worrying about things I can’t control! Even things I can control, like my food and fitness. I shouldn’t be controlling them to the point where they start to control me!
Oooh I love this!! I agree on the society of extremes. It stresses me out. I like the idea of a “to give” list rather than “to do” list! I’ll definitely be making one of those this holiday season!
I think you are incredibly inspiring and I am so grateful for the smile reading your posts puts on my face 🙂 I also love your “give” list instead of a “to do” list. And on that note I’m going to go give a few warm coats to the One Warm Coat bin tomorrow!
I think your niece has the best cereal eating style too. And she is adorable! I think my needs are well and truely met and I need to remember to be thankful for this all of the time!!!
Peanut Butter and tortilla chips…RANDOM, but I can see how that would be awesome. I mean salty, crunchy, and sweet? High-Fives to that and hope you are surviving in the kitchen. I wish I could come over and have a glass or two of vino with you. xoxo
“focused on a to do list rather than a give list”
So true.
Trying not to get sucked into that madness… Several of my family members requested charity donations this year instead of gifts. I’m thankful for their giving-ness!
I am pretty sure we’re twins. You put into words things that I’ve been thinking about lately, and you do it beautifully! Lately, what I crave is more time – especially with God, my husband, and my kids. Life just seems to be rushing by and I always seem to be two steps behind, begging it to slow down. I crave peace, I crave simplicity. I crave the freedom that my soul feels during meaningful worship. I crave the security of my husband’s arms. I crave a good run or the way that my muscles feel exhausted and pleasantly sore after a good workout. I crave simple food, prepared well. Wow, apparently I crave a lot!
THIS: I think the “tips” in most magazines are either repetitive or make you think too much. I think calories don’t count if you are in good company (focusing more on the people than the food) <yessssss!!!!
I am all about simplicity lately, as you know. And back to basics too. we all need less of everything…to have MORE. if that makes sense. AGREE and AMEN!
i am so sick of reading magazine tips with 10 ways to lose weight during the holidays or eat less or calories this, calories that. BAHHHHH! How about just don’t stress and i bet it would cure a lot. haha.
“Maybe we just need to think less and enJOY more.” — YES!
What I am grateful for: the ability to move, to run, to lift. People in my life that God has blessed me with, close or far away, family and friends whether I have met them in person or not. The promises that God has made, knowing that I am not alone in my walk with Him. Grace… no matter what I do and where I am at, I am enough.
Thank you Lindsay for continuing to challenge me to dwell on deeper thoughts instead of going through the daily motions that I get caught up in. God is SO good!
Love.this.so.much. I’m definitely with you on thinking that I over-think things. With life. With food. With everything. And it’s funny too because life is so simple, yet we make it out to be some huge complicated ordeal. If I try to think about not thinking so much, you think it’ll work? 😉
What I crave:
I too am seriously craving simplicity. I feel like I want to be the antithesis of the holiday season as defined by pop culture. In my morning study today, the Psalm and commentary made perfect sense: http://episcopaldigitalnetwork.com/stw/2012/11/15/bible-study-1-advent-c/
What I need:
I have everything I need to survive. To thrive, I need quiet and endless time to read books.
What I hope:
That I’m not turning away from God’s call because of fear of the unknown. That my faith is strong enough to jump off the mountain with Him.
You have the most beautiful soul my friend. I love love love hearing what you think, need, hope. Particularly the part about hoping that your husband feels loved everyday. I adore your devotion to him. It’s a beautiful — and sadly all too rare thing — to see in relationships these days. Love YOU!
All I need or want right now? Hugs from the hubs, laughter with the hubs and great friends, and the comfort in knowing that love surrounds me and my family, especially God’s love. A beautiful thing.
I crave simplicity, too… I love this time of year, but it is a constant battle against the shoulds and to do lists and family gatherings, etc. I love your reminder to focus on the giving- our time, our love, our selves. Thanks for the lovely post!
This made me smile. I love the way you think. It’s just so honest and refreshing. I want to say simple, but you’re not simple by any means. I sure wish society as a whole could just slow the heck down. Just collectively stop and look around for a moment to see what we’re missing (and ruining).
Love your fill in the blanks!
What do I crave… a good workout, hugs from the hubby and cuddles from the pup, a warm and nourishing meal, and travel adventures.
I love your hopes, especially to focus on the now instead of the future. Happy Wednesday!
I think YOU inspire me daily to take a step back and a deep breath. I need more simplicity and just need to take the steps to get there. Hugs lady!!!!!!! I want the Cotter mentality.
i just need you to live closer. ahh, sigh. And hugs!
What I am thankful. Having found your blog.
What I enjoy. Reading your beautiful posts.
What I wish. That you would live closer my friend.
XOXO
Oh me too!!! I wish you were my neighbor. hugs!
Laughter DOES make a bad day better! 🙂 And I love the way your niece eats cereal, so cute!
Bowls up Rach!
What do I crave?! Hmmmm this is EASY…Healthy Bites 🙂 Off to eat one now!
Oh & I crave LOTS of time with my little family. I try to hold on to every moment we have together. Even when parenting is trying…which it can be, I just look at her & realize HOW blessed we are to have her. She’s my little miracle baby.
Love ya Lindsay! 🙂
PS: Added a Healthy Bites link to my blog- I’m planning to start blogging more now, so hopefully I can send some people over! The world needs more healthy bites! XO
I’m so thankful for you!! I need to send you a badge!
P.S I love your miracle baby. Precious
I wish for my inner strength to match my outer strength..
Great post.. 🙂
I think it is… I know it is
Love this post and love you. Have an amazing and simple week my friend. 🙂
You too sweet friend
You are simply awesome! I love reading your posts and they always get me thinking. This year as a family we are focusing on what we have, not what we want or need. I’m doing my part to enJOY this entire season. Having fun and not counting anything but my blessings.
Ohhh I looooove that Jen. EnJoy those blessings each day!
I really enjoyed that post, it was a great way to start my morning along with a mug of coffee!
I was just wondering what devotional it is that you took the snapshot of, from that little tidbit I think it’s one that I would really enjoy reading!
Thanks
it’s called Jesus Calling by Sarah Young. It truly is an amazing little read!
Thanks!
My mom always gets my sisters & I a new devotional at Christmas so now I have one to suggest : )
late to the soiree….so Im making it THOUGHTFUL THURSDAY up in herre…
you can make it whatever you’d like. Miz way is the best way.
This post is perfect in so many ways. I want to dedicate more time to giving back to all the wonderful people in my life. Also, I definitely have to agree about your niece’s cereal eating technique, she is on to something. 🙂
haha, yes. I think all toddlers have great techniques. Who needs silverware anyway!?
oooh, I love this idea. I may have to use it;) You are always so inspiring my friend! Yep, I have to stop worrying about things I can’t control! Even things I can control, like my food and fitness. I shouldn’t be controlling them to the point where they start to control me!
amen! yes, use it! it’s good to let the thoughts flow.
Oooh I love this!! I agree on the society of extremes. It stresses me out. I like the idea of a “to give” list rather than “to do” list! I’ll definitely be making one of those this holiday season!
you have such a giving heart too! enjoy that gift. <3
I think you are incredibly inspiring and I am so grateful for the smile reading your posts puts on my face 🙂 I also love your “give” list instead of a “to do” list. And on that note I’m going to go give a few warm coats to the One Warm Coat bin tomorrow!
oh well i think it’s people like you that make me grateful and smile. Hugs right back!
Ahhhh, the Kiwi and his Pav – happy days right there 🙂
he’s a happy kiwi. Now we just need vegemite.
Need?
To stop worrying and let the things I can’t control go so I’m better able to do the things I can control!
i say you meet those needs. yes, you can!
I think your niece has the best cereal eating style too. And she is adorable! I think my needs are well and truely met and I need to remember to be thankful for this all of the time!!!
so good to hear! you have a blessed life friend!
Amazing post as usual, Lindsay!! Love <3
you are too kind. thanks Britt.
Peanut Butter and tortilla chips…RANDOM, but I can see how that would be awesome. I mean salty, crunchy, and sweet? High-Fives to that and hope you are surviving in the kitchen. I wish I could come over and have a glass or two of vino with you. xoxo
you must try it. And with honey or cinnamon. for real.
wish you were here too!
What an absolutely beautifully written post. Seriously.
🙂
<3 you.
“focused on a to do list rather than a give list”
So true.
Trying not to get sucked into that madness… Several of my family members requested charity donations this year instead of gifts. I’m thankful for their giving-ness!
what a great idea! i think we need to focus on those gifts anyway, right? Would save a lot of stress.
I love this!! I love your thought process and how wise you are. Have you ever thought of writing a devotional? I would buy it… just sayin. 🙂 love you!
oh you are too kind. I can’t write, i just think out loud. haha
I am pretty sure we’re twins. You put into words things that I’ve been thinking about lately, and you do it beautifully! Lately, what I crave is more time – especially with God, my husband, and my kids. Life just seems to be rushing by and I always seem to be two steps behind, begging it to slow down. I crave peace, I crave simplicity. I crave the freedom that my soul feels during meaningful worship. I crave the security of my husband’s arms. I crave a good run or the way that my muscles feel exhausted and pleasantly sore after a good workout. I crave simple food, prepared well. Wow, apparently I crave a lot!
seriously, we are twins!
THIS: I think the “tips” in most magazines are either repetitive or make you think too much. I think calories don’t count if you are in good company (focusing more on the people than the food) <yessssss!!!!
I am all about simplicity lately, as you know. And back to basics too. we all need less of everything…to have MORE. if that makes sense. AGREE and AMEN!
i am so sick of reading magazine tips with 10 ways to lose weight during the holidays or eat less or calories this, calories that. BAHHHHH! How about just don’t stress and i bet it would cure a lot. haha.
So much wisdom in the post Mrs. Cotter! WOOO! What do I crave: time with God, time with family, and peanut butter 😉
such good cravings, all nourishing!
My blank is just blank today. Ever had one of those?
all the time. i think we need them too. no thinking.
“Maybe we just need to think less and enJOY more.” — YES!
What I am grateful for: the ability to move, to run, to lift. People in my life that God has blessed me with, close or far away, family and friends whether I have met them in person or not. The promises that God has made, knowing that I am not alone in my walk with Him. Grace… no matter what I do and where I am at, I am enough.
Thank you Lindsay for continuing to challenge me to dwell on deeper thoughts instead of going through the daily motions that I get caught up in. God is SO good!
oh no friend, you challenge me. And in a way that makes me want to be more real and honest with my walk. Thank YOU!
I love this. I agree with all of them, especially What I see and What I crave. It’s the simple things, right?
yes, and especially this time of year. Simple and real!
What I love: Blogs like yours full of inspiration, reflection, and truth! You make me smile.
Have a great day!
oh and you make me smile! see 😀
What’s a prisoner squat? And where can I get a slice of that cake?! 😉
where you go further than 90 degrees and sometimes i put my hands behind my head. HUrt so good!
I simply love reading what you write.
Beautiful post.
xo
Love.this.so.much. I’m definitely with you on thinking that I over-think things. With life. With food. With everything. And it’s funny too because life is so simple, yet we make it out to be some huge complicated ordeal. If I try to think about not thinking so much, you think it’ll work? 😉
i think i might… i think. 😉
I love your facial expressions! I’m all over that workout too–row, row row!
i thought of you! Rowing queen!
I crave a kick butt workout, a good book, a warm hug, and a hot cup of tea.
oh those are the best! agreed!
What I crave:
I too am seriously craving simplicity. I feel like I want to be the antithesis of the holiday season as defined by pop culture. In my morning study today, the Psalm and commentary made perfect sense: http://episcopaldigitalnetwork.com/stw/2012/11/15/bible-study-1-advent-c/
What I need:
I have everything I need to survive. To thrive, I need quiet and endless time to read books.
What I hope:
That I’m not turning away from God’s call because of fear of the unknown. That my faith is strong enough to jump off the mountain with Him.
one word…. AMEN!
I am going to save the devo!
You’re gorgeous my friend! And I love everything you’re saying here… AMEN!
I knew you would agree. You think the same way. Love that about YOU!
Thumbs up from the hand model extraordinaire!!!!! Whooo!!!
What I think…. I think I love you! Actually I know it! Here’s to enjoying more ant thinking less!
i love you more my snickerdoodle! yes, i just made that up. But it has a nice ring to it. so there. <3
Lol that’s one of my Fav things to call people! Love it almond joy!!!
Would you write a book or become a motivational speaker or something already?! Hehe. Love your joyful spirit! 🙂
haha, i wish! anyone want to pay me? xoxo
I love the way you think. And see. And hope. And need. And are.
heehee. And are. You get it.
i get it, i get you. I LOVE YOU!
I love your WIAW posts. You make me smile.
I’m craving those cozy holiday nights filled with friends, laughter… And maybe a little red wine.
that’s a good craving. Keep satisfying it. Craving Austin yet? 😉
You have the most beautiful soul my friend. I love love love hearing what you think, need, hope. Particularly the part about hoping that your husband feels loved everyday. I adore your devotion to him. It’s a beautiful — and sadly all too rare thing — to see in relationships these days. Love YOU!
All I need or want right now? Hugs from the hubs, laughter with the hubs and great friends, and the comfort in knowing that love surrounds me and my family, especially God’s love. A beautiful thing.
such a beautiful thing. And your soul is so giving. I am THANKFUL for your heart and soul you share with me! hehe. CORNY but TRUE!
Such a sweet pic of the hubby! So sweet! Cake is gooooooooood!
Love you friend! Happy Wednesday! <3
it the KIWI Pavolva. ITS SOOOOO GOOD! James made it.
I love your outlook on life, you are such a beautiful person.
Right now I need rest, love and focus. Am working on both.
xoxo
you can do it. I know you will find all three. Love that focus!
I crave simplicity, too… I love this time of year, but it is a constant battle against the shoulds and to do lists and family gatherings, etc. I love your reminder to focus on the giving- our time, our love, our selves. Thanks for the lovely post!
i find the more i give the more i feel refreshed this time of year, yes?
This made me smile. I love the way you think. It’s just so honest and refreshing. I want to say simple, but you’re not simple by any means. I sure wish society as a whole could just slow the heck down. Just collectively stop and look around for a moment to see what we’re missing (and ruining).
gosh, amen to that! ruining it for sure!
Love your fill in the blanks!
What do I crave… a good workout, hugs from the hubby and cuddles from the pup, a warm and nourishing meal, and travel adventures.
I love your hopes, especially to focus on the now instead of the future. Happy Wednesday!
i think we share the same hopes and craves. always!
Love this. I agree with the “What I See”…I get too wrapped around things I HAVE to do during the holiday season. Wrong Answer.
i know. We all do. But at least we can see what the real answer is, yes?!
that last picture with james and the cake makes me happy!
and his hairy chest busting out, right? I love that man!
hugs.