WIAW: Settling

by LCCotter on June 20, 2012

One more week. That’s my guess. One more week till we are fully settled into our new place. Between house sitting and staying with family, our stuff is scattered in 3 different places. It took me 3 days to find our old bed spread that we had packed away last October. But alas, I found it, and 4 days later, we have a made bed.

Yes, it’s quite an adventure here at the Cotter House. But I must confess, I don’t like this feeling. A feeling of having to “settle.” We are not “settling” people. We thrive on traveling, living out of our suitcase, and just seeing what each day brings… living in the present. Right Jess? Winking smile

Settling  means we must change our ways. Settling means we need to focus on our future, somewhat. And I think that’s where it hits me. We still don’t know what our future looks like. It changes daily. One day the hubs is still planning on racing and training, the next day he is not.

Settling brings fear of the future….. IF I LET IT!

I have come to realize that fear of future is a waste of energy. I wasted a lot these past few days. I (we) must LET GO and LET GOD do HIS thang. I (we) must trust, pray, and be open to HIS WILL, whatever that may be.

Phew! Got that off my chest. Now, let’s move on to some WIAW action. The past few days have been  “clean out the pantry” and “one pot wonders.”

Thanks Jen for allowing me to photo dump pictures from my phone. Winking smile

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This is what I made with what was left in our pantry/fridge. Can you tell what it is?

A smoked salmon a zucchini scramble on top of brown rice.

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Lots of egg and potato brown rice wraps.

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More one pot wonders. Frozen veggies, more eggs, left over chicken, frozen spinach, herbs, and yes..more potatoes.

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Let’s not forget the wine. There will always be wine. This will be restocked at the new place ASAP.

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Now, I must go finish settling in. We’ve got a few more things to pack and unpack.

We’ll get there. No FEAR!

What’s your go-to clean the pantry meal?

Cheers,

LC

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Heather (Where's the Beach) June 20, 2012 at 7:39 am

Yay for a made bed! It’s funny that settling is unsettling for you. For me, that’s what I prefer. I don’t know that I could handle moving around or being unsettled very well. Of course, I have the desire to move, to try something new, different. A desire for change.
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 8:09 am

i thought of you when writing this. funny how we think. <3

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Heather @ For the Love of Kale June 20, 2012 at 7:42 am

Good LORD, I love you! I literally couldn’t stop myself from nodding along to this post. It’s so true…settling=fear! Being a recent grad, I was so fearful of settling…until I found a job that really challenges me in so many ways. It’s scary but amazing – the best kind of feeling, huh?!
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 8:09 am

yes! and so happy that you found that job through it! amazing, scary, and good all wrapped into one!

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Miz June 20, 2012 at 7:52 am

I should be embarrassed at how I was a little in awe of your dinner when you posted it.
yer onepotlifeisHECTIC trumps my best days.

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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 8:10 am

my onepotwonder is gonna be hopping over to a onestopmizfit soon. How’s the niece? xxoo

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Krysten Siba Bishop (@darwinianfail) June 20, 2012 at 7:53 am

Settling can be nerve racking, because you find yourself questioning all the what ifs. But it can also be AMAZING, because you can finally just focus on living the life you always wanted. Enjoy it girlie!
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 8:11 am

that is such a brilliant and refreshing way of thinking about it! I will enjoy it, with that perspective now Krysten. Thank you!

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Lindsay @ Lindsay's List June 20, 2012 at 7:54 am

still praying….
always will.
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 8:08 am

and i will for you.. always. <3 thank you!

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Lindsay @ In Sweetness and In Health June 20, 2012 at 7:55 am

You know, it’s kinda funny because I’m actually looking forward to settling! Although I think it’s just because that means Chris and I will finally be together and then we can have life adventures of our own :) . And yes…there should always be wine shouldn’t there Linds? ;) hehe
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 8:08 am

that’s the best kind of settling.. marriage. Together! You will LOVE IT!

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Sarena (The Non-Dairy Queen) June 20, 2012 at 8:14 am

Don’t be afraid of the future. You two are adventure seekers! This is just a new adventure! You two will do great no matter what you do!
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 12:26 pm

well woman, you said that right! And i needed to hear it, thank you!

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Brittany @ GOtheXtraMile June 20, 2012 at 8:25 am

I love the beginning of this post! It’s so true. However, I always have to tell myself “live in the moment” instead of trying to plan. Your eats still look yummy for cleaning out the fridge!
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 12:27 pm

amen to that. Planning is good but forgetting the moment is key!

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Kim K June 20, 2012 at 8:30 am

that wine has the prettiest bottle, right?! mike’s sister shaved down candles and put them in one of their red’s and one of their whites. so pretty! my cleaning out the pantry always involves eggs. thinking of you guys!
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 12:26 pm

i used to do that with my wine bottles too. It looked so vintage! I am sucker for cool wine bottles, as you can tell. Thanks for the love Kim. We love you!

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Kanoelani June 20, 2012 at 8:38 am

I know the feeling! Settling can be both a good and a bad thing I guess. Settling in to a new place and new way of life is good but scary because it brings the unknown :-) but then settling for things in life can sometimes be bad as well if you can do better than that but choose not to our of FEAR. I’m trying my hardest to also live in the MOMENT & w/out FEAR! Thanks for this… Love it… Live it… Live in the NOW! I’ll be praying for y’all :-D

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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 12:28 pm

Thank you friend! I always need someone elses words to really get it, and you said it perfectly!

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Christine @ Love, Life, Surf June 20, 2012 at 8:45 am

Oh Lindsay, I love this post. It’s taken me a while to get to a place where I am learning to let go of those things that I cannot control which is really hard for this Type A-sortofcontrolfreak. Like you said, it’s a waste of energy and emotion. But yes, there will always be wine for sure. And maybe healthy bites because I am in love with those now too.
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 12:29 pm

i love it when we can all relate. No one is ever alone here! And maybe i need to create a wino healthy bite. tee hee.

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Kris June 20, 2012 at 8:52 am

I can see both sides of this settling thing… as a girl who spent many years traveling and career-focused and traveling (did I mention traveling?) :) I know that wanderlust adventure feeling. on the other hand, I also love coming home. having a place of my own, a refuge to relax and grow. I love being surrounded by friends and family and yes, I have them all over, but they are greatly concentrated here at home! :D

love you dear – thinking of you guys always! XO
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 12:23 pm

Kris, i know you know this feeling. And i cannot thank you enough for giving me such words of encouragement. What would i do without you?! Love you dear. Thinking of you always as well. <3

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Jess June 20, 2012 at 8:55 am

I LOVE the concept of not allowing fear of the future drive you to pull back, and instead it drives you to open yourself up to His will instead. It’s totally empowering, isn’t it?
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 12:31 pm

His will! yes! Now, i just need to have ears to listen… closely.

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jobo June 20, 2012 at 8:59 am

I love your message on settling – a completely different connotation than when I first read the title of this post. I think settle – to compromise and not go for the gold. But in your way, settling the mind, settling the soul…I love feeling settled, but I also know that being TOO settled leads to stagnation and I always want to live teetering on the edge of discomfort. To fuel growth. Ya know? And PS glad you are SETTLING into your new digs. I request pictures :)
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 12:32 pm

oh yes, you took my thoughts right out of my brian, as usual. I will take pics. when i am…. settled. teehee

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Nichole June 20, 2012 at 9:58 am

You can see the finish line! Worrying about being settled is def an unsettling feeling but you’re channelling your emotions the best way.

If I’m ever bored midweek, fish tacos are my go-to — so easy!

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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 12:33 pm

mmm fish tacos. good stuff! you mean you don’t go fo fish n’ chips? hehe

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Ashley @ My Food 'N' Fitness Diaries June 20, 2012 at 10:21 am

amen my friend! thank you for this. i can always count on you for these good reminders. ;) we just gotta let God do His “thang” and continue to do our best to honor Him in what we do each day.
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 12:34 pm

it’s such a daily focus, isn’t it? I am humbled by HIS word. Thank goodness!

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Heidi @BananaBuzzbomb June 20, 2012 at 10:40 am

I SO hear you on the settling thing hence my current situation.
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 12:32 pm

i say we just caravan everywhere together instead, and train, race, etc!?!

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teabagginit June 20, 2012 at 10:52 am

i love clean out the fridge/pantry meals! i guess i usually make huge salads or stir fries b/c then i get to be creative with spices.
- maybe you’re not settling, but rather growing your roots so that you can reach the sky! :)
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 12:33 pm

can i just say i love you. Your words calmed my soul today!

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Kammie @ Sensual Appeal June 20, 2012 at 11:25 am

Happy WIAW to you! :)

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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 6:03 pm

Indeed friend!

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Alexandra June 20, 2012 at 11:51 am

Clean out the fridge meals can be so fun!!! The concoctions can be endless mwahaha :D One of my go to’s is a tuna and peanut butter sandwich– sounds so weird and yet it is SO good!
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 12:35 pm

haha, i just did that! but i used peanut flour and balsamic vinegar. Freakin awesome!

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Tiff @ Love Sweat and Beers June 20, 2012 at 11:53 am

Settling in feels good. It’s a great feeling when you come back to your new home from a trip and you get that “I’m home” feeling. You’re like, “Woah, where’d that come from?” but it’s good. :)

One-pot meals are also good too…
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 12:35 pm

so true. Hopefully i will feel that soon!

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Melissa June 20, 2012 at 12:11 pm

My favorite clean the pantry or fridge meals are usually pasta dishes or stir frys. I’m a total bowl person though and often eat random bowls of stuff
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 12:36 pm

i have a collection of bowls for that reason! hehe

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Rachelle June 20, 2012 at 12:43 pm

Yay for the new house girl I hope you love it! I think that no matter where you end up it is all about the people around you. You have a great support system so no matter what happens in the future the people around you will not change. :) Have a great day!

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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 7:22 pm

this is so true! and i am surrounded by amazing family and friends. xxoo

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Bre June 20, 2012 at 12:44 pm

I sent you an email…I can’t figure out how to post it on here. It’s about “fear of the future” ;) and it’s perfect.
You know what my go-to is. Peanut butter and toast! haha

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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 7:21 pm

it made my day! thank YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Bre June 20, 2012 at 7:30 pm

ah it was so perfect for you! :) glad it made you smile!
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Alysia @ Slim Sanity June 20, 2012 at 1:02 pm

we usually end up with some kind of pasta when we need to grocery shop. all the veggies are gone! :(
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 7:23 pm

veggies are first to go here too, unless they are frozen.

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Coco June 20, 2012 at 1:12 pm

I’m not moving, but I always turn to eggs.. and yogurt.. Most of the time we are living with the same bare minimum basic things in the fridge, so I’m always in the scrounge up random stuff mode :) “Settling down” is one of the scariest things to me (even though I’ve owned a house for a couple years) Now instead of feeling like it’s a ball and chain- I’m trying to look at it more like a home base… Plus with 2 dogs finding a place to rent is just as much as a mortgage… I hope you find some kind some comfort in your new place :)
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 7:24 pm

thats so true. A home base. I like that. I am hoping to make it a winning home base too!

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PavementRunner June 20, 2012 at 1:41 pm

I don’t have a go-to pantry meal… can I steal yours? The closest thing would be fried rice. This includes taking all leftovers and putting it in rice. Great way to clean up vegetables and various meats lurking around in the refrigerator.
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 7:24 pm

you can steal mine whenever. It’s super tasty post run. Add in the various meats and your golden!

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Abby @ Change of Pace June 20, 2012 at 2:06 pm

I’m so impressed with your healthy eats during a busy time!
Don’t fear being settled! You can still adventure and travel. Now you just have a home to unpack that suitcase!
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 7:25 pm

that is true. And i cannot wait to unpack it ALL!!!

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Lou June 20, 2012 at 3:13 pm

Enjoy (and embrace!) settling… it can be kind of fun putting down some roots :) I’m a bit of a homebody… I can only live out of a suitcase for so long before I start going a little cuckoo, especially with Misty!

Clean-out cupboard meal would have to be some sort of chunky SOUP… especially cos we are having some chilly nights here (not as bad as Christchurch though, brrrrrrr!)
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 7:26 pm

if i had a kiddo, i would too. Kids need a home base. I want to come live with you. Can we? I sure do miss you!

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Lou June 20, 2012 at 11:04 pm

You know I have a spare room which is just PERFECT for a couple of nomads? PLus we are maybe 5min from the beach/bike tracks for a certain sporty hubs ;) Oh and they have free early morning yoga down by the water!
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StoriesAndSweetPotatoes June 20, 2012 at 4:22 pm

You guys will get there and it will be worth it! Its feels good to get settled…eventually. Or maybe you’re just so tired by the end it feels good just to sit down :)
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LCCotter June 20, 2012 at 7:26 pm

yes!! just sitting down is amazing. haha. i never thought i’d say that!

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Brittany @ Delights and Delectables June 20, 2012 at 7:48 pm

Your cleaning out the fridge looks so much better than mine does! :) I love feeling settled. I find it much more peaceful. Just keep leaning on God and allow him to calm your fears and give you peace! Praying for you girl!
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LCCotter June 21, 2012 at 10:53 am

yes, i will! i am thankful just to know that HE has a plan, ya know?

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She Rocks Fitness June 20, 2012 at 8:17 pm

I’m so organized and anal so moving is not fun for me…HA! I try to get settled as quickly as possible. I’ve become quite a pro at it. The best thing I did when I moved back east was label every box with a brief description. Made the move SO MUCH easier. High-Fives!
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LCCotter June 21, 2012 at 10:54 am

girl get your booty over here and come organize for me. I will pay you in healthy bites!

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Michele @ nycrunningmama June 20, 2012 at 8:17 pm

Wanna come over and cook for me? Your meals look amazing – even if they are a way of you cleaning out your pantry =)
We ALWAYS have boxes of macaroni and crushed tomatoes – so making a homemade sauce with whole wheat macaroni is usually what I fall back on! If I have any veggies in the fridge, I sometimes will toss those in the sauce!!
Take your time settling! We still are and at the conclusion of 3 weeks here – HAHAHA. =)
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LCCotter June 21, 2012 at 10:54 am

well you are busy and are preggo and have a 2 year old. I have no exuses. haha!

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Jody - Fit at 54 June 20, 2012 at 9:12 pm

I am hungry & I just ate! ;-) Glad you are settling in – it is always tough after a move! Baby steps! ;-)
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LCCotter June 21, 2012 at 10:55 am

baby steps all week are keeping me sane. PHEW!

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katie @KatieDid June 20, 2012 at 9:35 pm

Good luck with the unpacking, cleaning, settling… I have a sneaky feeling once things are organized and decorated you’re gonna love feeling home for a while. Until the next adventure of course!
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LCCotter June 21, 2012 at 10:55 am

i hope, no, i know you are right! how did you get to be so wise at your age?! xxoo

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Lisa June 20, 2012 at 10:58 pm

Oh yes, I totally agree with you that just settling is a fear of mine. Good luck with all the things to come! It will be tough getting everything together, but after it will be so worth it!!I sometimes like cleaning out the fridge, but other times not so much when there is nothing left I want to eat ;) I guess that’s why I left it there to begin with.
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LCCotter June 21, 2012 at 10:53 am

true. and i am running out of good things to eat. Must REPLENISH! hehe

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Heather @ Better With Veggies June 21, 2012 at 6:05 am

An odd moment where we aren’t quite the same – I am so ready to be settled again. I don’t think I like this feeling of “after we move” that has been hanging over my head for months (with some of that “if we move”), I want to plan. Type A.. I know. :)

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LCCotter June 21, 2012 at 10:56 am

oh yes, you have a bigger move, but it’s gonna be so worth it. And i am going to come visit!

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Ashley @ Freckles & Spice June 21, 2012 at 7:21 am

I really love the beginning of this post. No fear! Trust your journey.
I am suffering the opposite. I have no certainty right now and it is giving me all sorts of fear. I would love to have a wandering, unsettled lifestyle. I’m actually craving it – but financially I can’t do it.
PS – I have that same wine!! Maybe I should drink it tonight :)
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LCCotter June 21, 2012 at 10:57 am

fear can only create more anxiousness. I know, its hard to let go, but lean on each other for support. WE CAN!

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Natalie @ will jog for food June 21, 2012 at 12:01 pm

I am ADDICTED to those brown rice wraps! Just discovered them last week. They are the bomb!
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LCCotter June 21, 2012 at 1:19 pm

they are the best for quesdillas too, have you tried that?

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Laura @ LauraLivesLife June 21, 2012 at 8:41 pm

I have a fear of settling too – and of getting bored. I dread boredom, but if I don’t learn to settle, it’ll start to affect my career and life and I can’t have that! Good for you for embracing this, no matter how unsettling it is!
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LCCotter June 21, 2012 at 9:14 pm

so true. We need to focus on the good it can bring our careers. Youre so wise!

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Sunnie (moderngirlnutrition) June 24, 2012 at 9:14 pm

Smoked salmon is the best! Lately, I can’t get enough!:)
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LCCotter June 24, 2012 at 10:01 pm

i think i crave that in the summer the most. must be the salt! haha

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